Unstoppable Referrals by Steve Gordon [book review]

Posted by Adam Franklin

I’ve just read Steven Gordon’s book Unstoppable Referrals: 10x Referrals Half the Effort so it’s time to review it.

Here’s my short video review and a written review beneath it.

Book Review

Traditional referral model is flawed

Steve acknowledges that the traditional referral model, whilst it can be effective, is an incredibly uncomfortable one (which means it rarely gets implemented). It simply goes like this, “ask happy customers for referrals.” But it is severely flawed and here’s why.

If I have a great experience with a vendor, say my insurance guy, he asks me to refer him to a friend who may also benefit from his services.  This is flawed because it puts me under pressure to ‘dob someone in’ for what is essentially a sales call.  Plus it puts my friend in the position where he is under implicit sales pressure — he must either reject the sales offer and risk offending me and my vendor, or walk away with a lighter wallet.  Not a pleasant position.

Any business owner is conscious of the uncomfortable position we put people in by asking them for referrals, so we don’t do it.  And fair enough too.

[Side note:  back in my university days, we were well aware that many gyms and multi-level marketers would solicit uni students to nominate a friend for the “opportunity” of a sales call. My friends and I took great delight in stitching each other up by offering up our mates’ cell phone numbers and saying how great a fit they’d be.  Of course dobbing mates in for sales calls made you a target too, so we all became quite skilled at crafting stories to reject the subsequent sales call!]

I digress…  there is a much better approach to business referrals.

The better way

Create an educational “referral kit” that people can give to their friends for free, that includes no contact with you (the seller).  This eliminate any sales pressure because they are not being asked to meet with you, and it makes you easy to refer because people can now able to ‘help’ their friends, not ‘dob’ them in for sales call.  Then once a prospect has consumed your valuable material they are then in the position where they can contact you.  A much more pleasant and effective referral approach.

In my own book I refer to a similar concept of “flagship content”. You publish remarkable and valuable information that people can access and share for free, so they can get to know you without being on the receiving end of any sales pressure. The right customers are attracted to you and are free to engage you on their terms.

Review: 5 out of 5

It was a nice and concise book with a powerful message. Plus it aligned very nicely with my own philosophy.

Buy the book Unstoppable Referrals on Amazon.

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Adam Franklin is the bestselling author of Web Marketing That Works. He is an international social media speaker and CEO of Bluewire Media.  His blog was Australia's #1 Business Blog and his podcast was #9 on the top marketing podcasts in Entrepreneur magazine. His work has featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, The Australian, Sydney Morning Herald, Huffington Post and iTunes. Download the popular Web Strategy Planning Template which has been used by hundreds of thousands of businesses worldwide. His weekly 'Bluewire News' email goes out to over 32,000 readers.

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